相濡以沫 xiāng rú yǐ mò
to help each other in adversity; devoted mutual support in hard times
Literally: mutually moisten with foam
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Origin
From the Zhuangzi (Da Zong Shi): fish stranded on dry land keep each other alive with their spittle — 相呴以湿,相濡以沫.
How to use it
Predicate or attributive; positive, tender. Often 相濡以沫的夫妻 or 几十年相濡以沫.
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- 这对老夫妻相濡以沫五十年,从未红过脸。Zhè duì lǎo fūqī xiāng rú yǐ mò wǔshí nián, cóng wèi hóng guo liǎn.This old couple have supported each other through thick and thin for fifty years and never once quarrelled.this pair old couple mutually moisten with foam fifty year, never not-yet redden (experiential particle) face
- 在最艰难的岁月里,两家人相濡以沫,共渡难关。Zài zuì jiānnán de suìyuè lǐ, liǎng jiā rén xiāng rú yǐ mò, gòng dù nánguān.In the hardest years, the two families helped each other and got through the crisis together.at most difficult (attributive particle) years in, two family person mutually moisten with foam, together cross difficult pass
More chengyu about friendship & family
- 相辅相成xiāng fǔ xiāng chéngto complement each other; mutually reinforcing
- 同舟共济tóng zhōu gòng jìto pull together in times of trouble; in the same boat
- 势不两立shì bù liǎng lìirreconcilable; mutually exclusive, at daggers drawn
- 患难与共huàn nàn yǔ gòngto share weal and woe; to stand together through hardship
- 唇亡齿寒chún wáng chǐ hánif the lips are gone the teeth will be cold; interdependent parties share each other's fate
- 貌合神离mào hé shén líunited in appearance but divided at heart; seemingly harmonious but actually estranged
- 肝胆相照gān dǎn xiāng zhàoto be utterly devoted to one another; loyal friends with nothing hidden
- 推心置腹tuī xīn zhì fùto confide in someone wholeheartedly; to speak with complete sincerity