出尔反尔 chū ěr fǎn ěr
to go back on one's word; to blow hot and cold
Literally: out you return you
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Origin
From the Mencius: 出乎尔者,反乎尔者也 (what comes from you returns to you); the meaning later shifted to breaking one's word.
How to use it
Predicate; negative. 说话不能出尔反尔.
Example sentences
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- 他昨天答应了,今天又不同意,太出尔反尔了。Tā zuótiān dāying le, jīntiān yòu bù tóngyì, tài chū ěr fǎn ěr le.He agreed yesterday and refuses today; he keeps going back on his word.he yesterday agree (particle), today again not agree, too out you return you (particle)
- 做生意最怕出尔反尔的合作伙伴。Zuò shēngyi zuì pà chū ěr fǎn ěr de hézuò huǒbàn.In business the worst thing is a partner who goes back on their word.do business most fear out you return you (particle) cooperation partner
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